What I learned when I helped my mother move: some personal insights

is a reviews editor who manages how-tos and various projects. She’s worked as an editor and writer (and occasional sci-fi author) for more years than she cares to admit to. She can be found on Threads as @barbarask. A few years ago, I was finally able to persuade my mother that she couldn’t live alone in her house — the one in which my family had lived since the 1970s — and needed to move into a smaller co-op apartment in a nearby retirement community. But neither she nor I were aware how stressful the process of selling a house and purchasing an apartment could be. While I wouldn’t presume to advise anyone on the technicalities of buying and / or selling real estate, I did come away from the experience with hard-won insights on how to deal with some of the emotional crises that can occur. Here are some of the things I learned. It’s not you — it’s the process If this is the first time you’ve sold or bought a home, get ready — it’s going to be a wild ride. A lot is involved: finding ... Read full article.