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This week the Pew Research Center published a study about how parents managed screen time for their kids 12 and under. The results were not particularly surprising (or enlightening, if we’re being honest). A full 90 percent of parents said their children watched TV, and 61 percent said their kids interact with smartphones at least on occasion. Somewhat surprisingly, only 50 percent said they let them play a game console of some kind. While 42 percent of respondents said they could do better managing their kids’ screen time, 86 percent did say they had rules around screens, even if they didn’t always stick to them.
What you won’t find in the Pew study, however, are what those rules are. That a certain percentage of parents “ever” let their kids watch TV doesn’t tell us useful information like, how long they watch, what they watch, or how parents are making sure they’re not watching anything inappropriate.
With my eight-year-old we’ve implemented a sort of barter system that I borrowed from Greg McKeown, author of Essentialism. They start each week with 10 tokens, worth a total of $5 or five-hours of screen time. They can earn additional time or money by reading. How they use that time is largely up to them, they can play Minecraft or watch shows on their children’s accounts on Disney+, Netflix, or Paramount+. They also have access to a few music making apps and games on their iPad. But we don’t allow them unfettered access to the iPad.
Lest you think that I rule my kids’ screen time with an iron first, my youngest gets an hour of (mostly educational) TV a day, just so we can help the oldest with their homework in peace. And every Saturday we have family movie night, and we take turns picking what we watch that week.
When I asked you (The Verge readers) and our staff how they managed their kids’ screen time, making it a group activity was a common theme.
Yw0 said their best advice was to “be around” when the TV was on “so it’s a shared experience.”
Kate Cox, a senior producer for Decoder , has what she calls Family Time, where they “all watch or play something together. Currently wrapping up Steven Universe, Batman TAS, and Final Fantasy 6 (in rotation), which is our way of letting the kids access something they might have questions about or not be able to do solo.”
It also turns out that how much time kids spend in front of a screen isn’t the biggest concern. Time limits were common, but not universal.
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