I thought about this when reading a mastodon post which commented on a news where a project adopted a "use Generative AI but disclose it" policy, because it is "the future" and "people are going to use it anyway".
I find the "this is the future, like it or not" framing particularly disgusting, and it is somewhat common in tech circles to accept it for most "new" technologies as if it was backed by evidence.
This post is to underline that Nothing is inevitable.
Modern technology is abusive.
A small contingent of power users using niche OSes (like myself) survive by avoiding as much of the tech oligarchs’ world as I can, sure, but overall everything is disgusting, and using FOSS is certainly no silver bullet.
Tech enthusiasts who do not apply critical thinking are even worse, because they get beat up everyday by the things they buy at a premium and they like it because they have this twisted idea of what constitutes progress. This is slowly infusing into the general population, which is also a problem.
People have been trained to be abused by software and by hardware, to ignore their needs, to accept any change as inevitable. I speak of abuse because people have been trained to expect and accept change at the same time, with no agency whatsoever.
Most old people in particular (sorry mom) have given up and resigned themselves to drift wherever their computing devices take them, because under the guise of convenience, everything is so hostile that there is no point trying to learn things, and dark patterns are everywhere. Not being in control of course makes people endlessy frustrated, but at the same time trying to wrestle control from the parasites is an uphill battle that they expect to lose, with more frustration as a result.
I want to emphasize here that there are good products (both software and hardware) on the market even though the list gets shorter every year, some products even manage to solve real problems (!!). That does not change the fact that consent, hype and projected consumer needs are manufactured by years and years of abuse and marketing campaigns.