GoKawiilPersonal essay argues social trends, not individual choice, drive rising isolation among young people
The piece opens with a childhood anecdote about being discouraged from playing the flute, then pivots to a personal essay reflecting on a conversation about touch aversion, sexuality, and social withdrawal. The author argues that rising rates of depression, isolation, and reduced physical intimacy among younger generations exceed what base rates of asexuality or personal preference would predict, suggesting broader societal causes.